Author Archives: Eileen Gormley

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How do you know for sure that she has consented?

Actual conversation: Couple naked on a bed, doing sexy stuff. Guy: Wait, should I be checking in with you that you are consenting, like that college consent course said? Her: We just spent an hour chatting on the sofa, establishing … Continue reading

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I Believe her

I believe her. Not just because I’m a good feminist and believe in women, although I am. But because it doesn’t make sense not to believe her. But she might be lying. She might be out to get revenge on … Continue reading

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Gotta get to the snow

It’s snowing in Val Cenis and I’m getting excited about going skiing in January. I’m also scrounging up my money to pay for it, and wondering if perhaps there is a cheaper way to do things. We’re staying in the … Continue reading

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75 Days to skiing, let’s get fit

  With thanks to the Telegraph, how to get fit for skiing. Find the perfect knee position Watch Octopus Clinic video 85 shows the knee position exercise in more detail. Find the perfect pelvis, hip and back position Watch Octopus Clinic video 84 shows … Continue reading

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That bathoom battle is back

When North Carolina passed the infamous bathroom law, which prohibited trans people from using the bathroom of their perfered gender, it caused so much protest that it seemed like a dead duck. President Obama weighed in and said that federally … Continue reading

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Pockets are a feminist issue

Pockets are a feminist issue. I found the perfect pair of trousers in Penny’s recently. Black velvet, long enough for my legs, and most important, with pockets. I got home, tried them on and they were comfortable and flattering. So … Continue reading

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Things not to say to a parent who lost a child.

“She’s in the best place now.” No. No matter how bad things were, how horrible the disease, the best place for a child is in her parents’ arms. “It was meant to be.” No. Sometimes the most terrible horrible things … Continue reading

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